A book by Dr. Tallis Barker
“Through ego we are born into pain, not love.
In fact, this is the reason we crave love in the first place.”
We come into this world as fragments — chasing connection, clarity, peace.
We long for love, for meaning, for some sense that we are whole — and not alone.
But what if love isn’t something we find?
What if love, meaning, and wholeness are what we remember?
Growing into Being is a book for those who feel the pulse of something deeper beneath daily life.
It’s about the slow, often painful, and ultimately luminous return to self — to Source — to the infinite we forgot.
“So long as you pick and choose what pain you’re willing to face…
you will remain alone, chained to your ego, locked in the solitary confinement of ‘me’.”
This book is not a doctrine or a method. It is not another voice telling you what to believe.
Instead, it’s an invitation — to notice the subtle energy behind the noise, to stay with your pain long enough for it to become grace, to remember that your consciousness is not confined to your body.
To read this book is to step into a sacred spiral:
a movement inward, not in theory but in sensation.
“The light of every little firework will inevitably pose the question:
‘Where is this light coming from?’”
Growing into Being draws from many years of deep personal experience with energy, meditation, inner silence, and heartbreak. It includes:
- Raw insight into the nature of ego, love, fear, and separation
- Personal experiences with subtle energy, chakras, and the Way of Light
- A bold rethinking of forgiveness — not as forgetting, but as remembering more deeply
- A framework of awakening: from separation to believing, knowing, and Being
At its heart, the book is a reminder:
you are not broken. You are becoming.
“The only possible solution can lie in personally experiencing your underlying infinite nature…
undeniable proof that you do exist.”
Growing Into Being | A book by Dr Tallis Barker 